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Where do you refuse to shop?

Earlier tonight I came across this fantastic post over on Little Ocean Annie. In it, she discusses her reasons for not shopping at Forever 21 and American Apparel. An excerpt:

I used to LOVE shopping at Forever 21. My best friend and I had a little tradition of meeting up on Fridays and perusing the biggest (yet somehow least crowded) Forever 21 in Portland. We’d each find a few things to buy each week, but at an average of $40/visit it wasn’t a bank-breaking habit. I started purchasing huge amounts of clothing and accessories there, falling in lust with each piece. I would rarely try things on, and when I got home to find they didn’t fit like I’d like them to fit, I’d brush it off, thinking, “Oh well, it was only $XX.” This habit went on for a couple of years. It wasn’t until Josh and I started living together that he noticed this habit. His response was not what I expected. Josh kept asking me to stop buying cheap clothing, and spend more money on quality pieces. I interpreted this as him suggesting I keep buying the same number of items, just at higher end stores. I kept saying to him, “Um, we can’t afford that.” Of course, what he meant was that I should stop focusing on quantity, and focus on quality. When I’d go shopping with Josh, it would take me aback that he’d spend over $100 on a pair of shoes while I stood there in my $12.99 Target flats. Fast forward four years later, those Ferragamo loafers he found on sale are still holding up perfectly, while I’ve gone through a countless number of cheap shoes. All of this caused piles and piles of clothes to accumulate in my closet and overflow into our room. I would take bags and bags of clothes into resale shops, where they’d buy about 10% of the lot from me, and pay me about 10% of what I spent on these clothes in the first place. What was too old and worn for these stores to re-sell, I’d just donate. Then I’d start the whole process over again.

(Please check out Annie’s post, which is so thoughtfully done, to keep reading about her experiences)

Like Annie (and for similar reasons) I’ve never been a huge fan of Forever 21, but didn’t really have an opinion one way or another about AA. Their ads as of late, I’d noticed, had gotten particularly scandalous, but several of the most shocking ones she featured I hadn’t even seen (because they’re obviously way too racy to post on a billboard). Recently, a friend of mine mentioned how awful she thought the brand was — and after reading this post, I’m beyond grossed out by it. Apparently, Dov Charney thinks he’s the Ron Jeremy of apparel. And it’s disgusting.

Her post made me start thinking about other businesses I choose not to support, and I realized as far as apparel goes, it’s pretty limited. I’m completely guilty of not researching the brands I buy from or learning about their practices. Am I alone in not doing my due diligence? How do you guys learn about companies that aren’t doing right by their employees or society as a whole? Do these issues even matter to you? What are the things a company could do that would cause you never to buy from them again? In our society where the impetus is to buy, buy, buy, I’m really interested to hear how people feel about this topic.

Parlez-vous Francois?

Even though I spent some time trying to brush up on my French this past spring, it was tougher than I anticipated in Paris. Having had no one to really practice with, I could read signs and menus and sort of say what I needed to say, but listening comprehension was almost impossible until the last few days, when my ear was beginning to tune itself to this new tongue. It’s a wonderful, blessed thing that so many Parisians speak a bit of English.

Joe on the other hand, didn’t really prepare all that much. In fact, I take that back. Why sugar coat it? The kid knew nothing about the French language, except “Sacre bleu!” which he sometimes will shout out — Tourettes like — when he roams about the house. This is all an effort to be cute and charm me (and it usually works).

I take it back again. Besides “Sacre bleu,” his sole attempt at ever speaking French before this trip took place one night in college, when we were playing a version of Pictionary with our roommates. He was trying to draw a picture of Ben, our roommate who studied in France and parles better than anyone I know. To identify Ben as Ben without writing “BEN” over the stick figure’s head, Joe drew the character with a thought bubble that read “Par Lay Voo Frances.”

Funnily enough, everyone in the room knew it was a drawing of Ben.

So we get to Paris, and I start speaking, knowing full well what I’m trying to say, and 60% of the time people could understand. The other 40% they sort of squinted their eyes and turned their head a little and said “Eh?”

I promised myself I’d never again make fun of my family for their abysmal pronunciation of Spanish (Just kidding, mom. You’re getting way better).

To be honest, I didn’t anticipate that I would be as hesitant to speak as I was, with the vocabulary I had (which was a fairly good one, all things considered). But stumbling over words was new and fresh; even when I speak Spanish, I learned enough of it back in the day that I know exactly what to say and how to pronounce it and people completely understand me.

Like most other things in life though, Joe grabbed the French language by the horns, and forged full speed ahead whether he knew what he was saying or not. This resulted in some pretty funny exchanges. (more…)

Is the customer always right?

If someone says to you, “I went to this restaurant last night. It was awful!” I would lay odds that their complaints lie either with the food or the front of house staff. Right? Maybe their server completely messed up their order, or the food was cold and greasy, or the atmosphere unwelcoming. But you never hear anyone say, “The Chef at that restaurant is a real ass and kicked us out. It was awful!”

{Correction: I’ve definitely said that about restaurants and their “leadership,” but never as a patron. I’m being vague here. Sorry. Ask me about this sometime in person, it’s a great story.}

In any case, a Chef definitely turned the night sour for one Ron Lieber, a writer for the New York Times, who was subsequently kicked out of Restaurant Marc Forgione in Manhattan last Saturday night after a somewhat dramatic confrontation. Ron can explain what happened a little better (here’s his post from the NY Times Diner’s Journal): (more…)

Interests include long walks on the beach, and cinematic masterpieces.

A real conversation I had with Joe this afternoon via Gchat:

Joe: serious question for you

Me: ok.

Joe: do i want to watch Theta Pie…that movie w/ Audrina Patridge OnDemand?

Me: super serious, indeed.

Me: do you have to pay for it?

Joe: yeah

Me: then no

Me: why would you pay to watch Ceiling Eyes?

Joe: im doing it

Me: our Comcast bill is getting more and more embarrassing.

You’re invited…

Why is this all struck through? Find out here.

Last week, I posted a few different goals that I’ve had on my mind and hope to accomplish in 2010. It seems all of my friends are on the same page, because not but a day or two after I wrote mine out here, I found out a group of my buddies were gettin’ real serious about making sure their goals get met.

Introducing VMACwitness. It’s a site I’m launching mostly as a way to keep in better contact with close friends and family, and to track the progress of the six goals I listed in the last post. You can learn more about the hows and the whys in the About section, but I invite you to come on over and say hi. The content on VMACwitness will likely be a bit more up close and personal than the mostly food-related content here. The format of the site will also look and feel (I hope!) more like daily journal entries.

Got some goals of your own? You should totally sign up for a blog and play along! You’ll be that much closer to your 2010 goals if you have buddies to keep you accountable.

Food: here.

Goals: there.

Stay tuned and please leave comments on both sites!

PS – the apartment photo post is forthcoming. We spent quite a bit of time on the place this weekend, getting things cleaned up and what not. There’s a big painting project in the works, so a part of me wants to finish it before I show you guys pictures…but if I can this week, I’ll post some sneak preview pics!